Top 10 Signs to call it Quits in an Relationship
He proposed you, you said yes. Then there were all the lovey dovey feelings all around as if there was no love story epic as yours. And all of a sudden you find yourself in a awkward situation trying to solve this puzzle. If you are here, means somewhere in your heart, a doubt is creeping inside about your relationship. Although I might sound rude but it is a fact. Love is that extent which has made you go through endless tests to keep it alive and rocking. But all love stories are not perfect and sometimes the spark which has helped two souls bind each other falls off. It is hard to admit that your relation is going through a rough phase and you need to find out whether it has any future or not. There is no point in keep clinging to the relation if you can feel its burden. It not only will affect you but also another soul could suffer for your ignorance to the fact. So, if you are on the fence, or have your head in the sand, then see if any of these telling signs that you don’t want to be with him anymore pertain to you.
10.Hmm, Umm, Huh…Yup…No…
When your regular talks are replaced by these words frequently, you have to be sure that you have lost interest in any conversation with him and his life. There is no connection felt between two souls. As if you both are living a different lives being in a same room.
9.Lies lies everywhere:
As much as your love is true, so should be your partner to you. When the love is itself a trap how can you believe the person you are in love with. If he has tried every lie in this world to impress you, you might find that he is truly in love with that is why he lied. But if he is still making an excuse to meet you or you have caught him lying for every petty thing, then you can say he never believes you and confides you of the important facets of his life. He can never mend his ways and this will obviously freak you out in the very future. So better to let him in his way and you find a means to end all this by calling it a quit.
When did you last find your partner checking out at other girls around? If the answer is almost every day, then you better hurry up because he can never be the one you can possibly have a future. His wandering eyes make it clear that he is a pervert vying for every girl’s attention and cannot be kept clinging to just one. He is the type of person who will try for every girl and finally end up with no one because his lustful eyes can never be satisfied.
7.When words speak more than eyes:
Love is the unconditional feeling that rips all feelings apart. It has managed to be the most essential drug of our life. True love needs no words. It can be felt by a mere silence. But when there is intrusion of words to show and flaunt love, then you can say love is dying from inside. When you fail to read your partner’s heart through his eyes and blame him every time that he did not reciprocate his feelings through words, then you are seeking a poet or writer not his love.
If your partner gives you a ‘whatever’ look and you feel like your heart being pierced at the very thought of his ignorance, he is tactfully indicating you that he no longer is interested in you and you hold less or no importance in his life. There is a heated argument and he never makes any attempt to fall back on his knees or buffer for those conflicts. He just ignores your calls and after a no sooner time, he calls saying he was busy. This is just enough to get it the end is nearing soon.
You were a typical bookworm and he was the heartthrob of every girl around the school. Or you were the fun around to be girl and he made you learn the seriousness of life. There is a rule that opposites attract. And most epic love stories portray the fact. But sometimes the opposites might be too opposite to bear with. It results in a rift between you both. The things for which you liked him, has become the sole reason for your daily tiffs with him. He is hell on bent upon to change you. These are the signs!! Watch out for it. Stop being ignorant and accept the truth that your true soul mate will never try to change you in any way. He will love you for your every imperfection.
4.The call that annoys:
Do you remember the night calls and messages which were at the epitome of your initial days of dating? You found it intriguing to know about every minute details of his life. You felt quick butterflies flying when his name flashed on the screen. Your views were confined within the tiny screen of your cell. But in the present day, his mere hello brings a grimace to your face. The curves of lips bent in opposite when there is a message from him. Your mind always revolves around excuses to ward him off your call log. Don’t be an idiot. You have to accept that the spark has long gone. It is time for you to call it off.
3.Everything about him irritates you:
No one’s perfect, not even you. But love is about learning to live with his faults. If every little thing he does seems to be getting on your nerves – the way he says hello, the fact that he calls you dear, that relentless gum chewing, and the way he tries every means to make you feel special. These may be signs that it’s over.
You are fed up with the regular talks. You find no words out of your mouth when you are with him. You try to think and make talks just to avoid a long silence. Do you remember the last time both of you did something exciting together? You start to miss out the enthralling moments together but have no patience to bear with him and his boring nature. It is high time to break the silence and do away with it so that the silence does not echo throughout your future.
1.Checking out other guys:
You are very much certain that the guy next door always come to gym the same time as much so as to bang with your timings. Or you feel the college hottie has asked you for notes just to have a little place in your heart. The answer might be to your delight. But how can you be delightful of the thought of dating the college hottie when you have your own prince charming awaiting your call. Of course it is pretty sure that you are not in love with your partner.
Stop gritting your teeth. It is better to let him know the truth and free him of the bonds of love. He might find it harsh but it is better to quit rather than to make him suffer the whole life.